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Friendship, TouchRrelationship and Parenting of Teenagers
Express your feeling with touch

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We are human beings and we enjoy touch since birth. Even when we were infants, toddlers we used to get lot of love through body touch: be it kiss or hug or crush....

But the same touch expressions decreses during puberty and adolescent from the family members and friends. As one is passing through PUBERTY and the hormonal changes are active to develop primary and secondary sex (reproductive) organs.

We express our emotions throguh body language. We cry, we show anger, we show love. More than the words, its the expression of body, its the touch of body makes the impact.

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Parents should learn to continue touch therapy to express their love towards their teenage son and daughter. Mother should not stop hugging or kissing just because the son has grown up. Maybe little chage is OK, but continue. Similarly father should not stop kissing or hugging or playing with daughter, just because she is a teenager now and developing her body.

Few pics of touching and showing emotions:

Pics birthday touch feeling

pics crying consoling touch

pics friends girls intimate hugging

pics friends intimacy touch holding hands

pics friends intimacy touch walking together

pics friends intimate touch hugging

pics friends reading while sleeping

pics friends sitting closely and touching

pics intimacy friends sitting opposite

pics intimacy friends kissing hand

pics intimate friends cheek touch love expression

pics Teenagers intimate touch feeling closeness

pics teens friends intimate touch together

 

Even our pets love our touch and they can understand our mood just how you touch them.

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Never show agreesion in public. If you slap or react angrily in the presence of others make the situation worst. Anger should be shown in private if possible.

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The KISS is the best way of expressing love in the relationship. It can be just on cheek, forehead, over hand or on lips depencding on the kind of relationship and situation.

pics touch kiss between two adults of opposite gender

pics touch kiss birthday

pics touch cheek friendly love

 

Counselling to others with touch is also best therapy. If a member in relqationship is depressed, in grief, do hug and touch to reduce the tension and sadness.

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Friend always like to remain close to each other. They walk, play, study, together through every opportunitites to remain close and tocuhing.

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NO!

they are not HOMOSEXUAL, they are not LESBIANS, they are not GAY. But they are the best friends in need and enjoying their life together.

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Sometimes intimate friendship with same gender may also result in exploring sexual feelings. It may be explored through touch, kiss, hug or in extreme cases of masturbation and intercourse. This tendency may have risk to result into Homosexual / gay / lesbian relationship in long run.

pics teen girls kissing only exploring feelings or lesbian relationship is difficult to identify?

 

Sometimes even staying together also helps each other to show the love and intimacy. Only holding hands is enough to show the arm relationship.

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Parents should also notice and understand that opposite gender attraction are going to play on son as well as daughter during puberty and teenage. So handle such occasions gracefully. Make them understand the first infatuation.

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CHILD TEEN SEXUAL ABUSE

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