Our problems of

breast development, Bra size measurement.

Bra selection were answered promptly at teens N parents.com
Ananya, a teenager
 
 

Breasts are baby milk-feeders first and sexual object afterwards.

Most females are not happy with their breasts as they think their breasts are sagging, small or big or dark or uneven or with hair,,.

Breasts are forbidden, yet everybody seems to be obsessed by them.

Did everyone not get breastfed as baby from their mother’s breasts?

Breasts viewing are a taboo. Going topless on beaches is not accepted. Breastfeeding in public is frowned on. Females going top-less is considered shameful and indecent, immodest behavior. But, entertainment industry and the media show females wearing very scant clothing that barely covers the nipples and just draws more attention to the breasts. Fashion swimwear covers less and less of the female body each year. Pornographic industry makes a lot of money by letting men see these taboo items. Females worry about enlarging their breasts to make them attractive.

Exposing breasts - even while breastfeeding - is seen as "indecent exposure". Breasts are to be hidden; they are forbidden, a taboo. They are considered a sexual organ in the same sense as genitals are. Parents teach their children the same way, and many times children don't see a single naturally nude breast apart from their own, while growing up. It is totally possible that a child grows up and never sees a baby breastfeeding!

However, while exposing breasts in public is a 'no-no', teenagers often see upper breasts, (although never the nipples) displayed in a sexually provocative fashion on television, in print media and at magazines. Breasts are emphasized big time in the media and advertisements, who signal to our young people that breasts are a sexual organ, and only beautiful when big and protruding. But we know big breasts is a fallacy since females in ads and movies may use push-up bras and breast enlargement to artificially 'enhance' the way their breasts look like.

If young girls continually see this 'propaganda' without a balancing view of natural naked breasts, it is no wonder they also start seriously worrying about the size and shape of their breasts even to the point of suicide! And females do greatly worry about their breast size as proven by the huge amount of augmentation surgeries. When girls as young as 12 talk about getting breast implants based on this standard, we have a serious problem. How can we say that to view a female's breasts while breastfeeding will damage children, when it is so clear what not seeing them is doing the damage to both the boys as well as girls? Most females are not happy with their breasts as they think their breasts are sagging, small or big or dark or uneven or with hair,,. Females who were happiest with their breasts were the females while they were breastfeeding. They weren't thinking about, "Is it too small? Or Is it too big? It's just doing breastfeeding wonderful.

If females are obsessed about their breast size and shape to the extent of surgery, men aren't doing any better. For many men, female breasts are a source of sexual fantasy and obsession. For these men, it is not just a general appreciation of the female figure or the various body parts of a female, but a fetish, a fixation or obsession. They get inspired from looking at pictures where they see some cleavage, where breasts are enticingly almost visible, yet hidden. The pornographic industry gets much good about the taboo-ism of female breasts by showing men some bare breasts for good money.

Fashion industry designs clothes that draw attention to breasts while still hiding them, females feel unhappy about their 'boob size' while shopping for bras - the breast taboo makes the whole country OBSESSED by breasts!

The most universally admired feminine trait is plumpness -- not perfect breasts. Some culture are unique in erotizicing the breasts to such an extreme. The cultural belief is that breasts are similar to genitals in being sexual organs. Of course they are a female body part, and there's nothing wrong in considering them beautiful as part of a female's body. But are breasts really something anatomically designed as a special sexual body part? Indian females commonly do not go topless on beaches. Primitive tribes in hot climates wear very little clothing and it's no big deal to them. We do have a peculiar obsession with breasts in this culture. A lot of people think it's just the human nature to be fascinated with breasts but in many cultures, breasts aren't sexual at all, where females go around with bare breasts. They're always feeding their babies openly.

By Adolescence Educator