Breasts are baby milk-feeders
first and sexual object afterwards.
Most females are not happy with their breasts as they think their
breasts are sagging, small or big or dark or uneven or with hair,,.
Breasts are forbidden, yet everybody seems to be obsessed by them.
Did everyone not get breastfed as baby from their mother’s
breasts?
Breasts viewing are a taboo. Going topless on beaches is not accepted.
Breastfeeding in public is frowned on. Females going top-less is considered
shameful and indecent, immodest behavior. But, entertainment industry
and the media show females wearing very scant clothing that barely
covers the nipples and just draws more attention to the breasts. Fashion
swimwear covers less and less of the female body each year. Pornographic
industry makes a lot of money by letting men see these taboo items.
Females worry about enlarging their breasts to make them attractive.
Exposing breasts - even while breastfeeding - is seen as "indecent
exposure". Breasts are to be hidden; they are forbidden, a taboo.
They are considered a sexual organ in the same sense as genitals are.
Parents teach their children the same way, and many times children
don't see a single naturally nude breast apart from their own, while
growing up. It is totally possible that a child grows up and never
sees a baby breastfeeding!
However, while exposing breasts in public is a 'no-no', teenagers
often see upper breasts, (although never the nipples) displayed in
a sexually provocative fashion on television, in print media and at
magazines. Breasts are emphasized big time in the media and advertisements,
who signal to our young people that breasts are a sexual organ, and
only beautiful when big and protruding. But we know big breasts is
a fallacy since females in ads and movies may use push-up bras and
breast enlargement to artificially 'enhance' the way their breasts
look like.
If young girls continually see this 'propaganda' without a balancing
view of natural naked breasts, it is no wonder they also start seriously
worrying about the size and shape of their breasts even to the point
of suicide! And females do greatly worry about their breast size as
proven by the huge amount of augmentation surgeries. When girls as
young as 12 talk about getting breast implants based on this standard,
we have a serious problem. How can we say that to view a female's
breasts while breastfeeding will damage children, when it is so clear
what not seeing them is doing the damage to both the boys as well
as girls? Most females are not happy with their breasts as they think
their breasts are sagging, small or big or dark or uneven or with
hair,,. Females who were happiest with their breasts were the females
while they were breastfeeding. They weren't thinking about, "Is
it too small? Or Is it too big? It's just doing breastfeeding wonderful.
If females are obsessed about their breast size and shape to the
extent of surgery, men aren't doing any better. For many men, female
breasts are a source of sexual fantasy and obsession. For these men,
it is not just a general appreciation of the female figure or the
various body parts of a female, but a fetish, a fixation or obsession.
They get inspired from looking at pictures where they see some cleavage,
where breasts are enticingly almost visible, yet hidden. The pornographic
industry gets much good about the taboo-ism of female breasts by showing
men some bare breasts for good money.
Fashion industry designs clothes that draw attention to breasts while
still hiding them, females feel unhappy about their 'boob size' while
shopping for bras - the breast taboo makes the whole country OBSESSED
by breasts!
The most universally admired feminine trait is plumpness -- not perfect
breasts. Some culture are unique in erotizicing the breasts to such
an extreme. The cultural belief is that breasts are similar to genitals
in being sexual organs. Of course they are a female body part, and
there's nothing wrong in considering them beautiful as part of a female's
body. But are breasts really something anatomically designed as a
special sexual body part? Indian females commonly do not go topless
on beaches. Primitive tribes in hot climates wear very little clothing
and it's no big deal to them. We do have a peculiar obsession with
breasts in this culture. A lot of people think it's just the human
nature to be fascinated with breasts but in many cultures, breasts
aren't sexual at all, where females go around with bare breasts. They're
always feeding their babies openly.
By Adolescence
Educator