Breast
Size and Sensitivity Stimulating a Woman's Breasts
The size of a female's breasts has
no bearing on whether she enjoys having them sexually stimulated.
Since breasts have become sexual objects, large breasts have become
symbols of greater sexuality. A female with large breasts is often
seen as being more sexual than a female with small breasts, and she
is expected to be sexy. Unfortunately, female with small breasts may
have them overlooked by their husband because of this false expectation,
and female with large breasts may find their breasts receiving too
much attention. Female with large breasts may have less nipple and
breast sensation than with small breasts, perhaps because the nerve
endings are distributed over a larger area. Keep in mind that a female's
emotional relationship with her breasts probably plays a larger part
in whether she "enjoys" having them stimulated than their
actual sensitivity to physical stimulation. A husband should be careful
not to judge her breast's sensitivity, or her enjoyment of breast
stimulation, based solely on their size.
How do you stimulate breasts and nipples? That depends on the individual,
but gently is perhaps the best way. Female often enjoy having their
breasts lavished with love, which means gentle licks, nibbles, and
caresses with lips, tongue, and fingers. Stimulate her entire breast,
not just the nipple alone. Take your time. Massage her nipples and
breasts gently with oil or body lotion or saliva. Her genitals may
respond to breast stimulation, if they do, it is a good way to prolong
sexual foreplay pleasure. While she is not likely to experience orgasm
as the result of breast stimulation alone, it may be intensely enjoyable
for her. Be aware of her menstrual cycle if she experiences breast
tenderness. (Keeping a menstrual calendar is a good idea for female
who need to keep their husband informed of cyclic changes in their
body.) There are females who need clitoral and nipple stimulation
simultaneously in order to experience orgasm.
Intense stimulation of her nipples may result in a surge in the production
of the hormones that may have a significant affect on her genitals.
Few females discover that they like for their breasts to be treated
roughly while masturbating and they can inform and instruct their
husband how and when to do it correctly. Do not treat a woman's breasts
like loaves of dough you are kneading or bite her breasts or nipples.
A woman's breasts are often extremely important to her so she may
enjoy having them stimulated even if it is not physically enjoyable
for her. Her husband’s enjoyment and acceptance of her breasts
may be very meaningful to her emotionally. This is why it is important
not to neglect a female's breasts, on the way to her vulva and vagina.
Some females do put their breasts off limits for emotional reasons;
the most common is insecurity about their size. Females with small
breasts who wear padded or push-up bras may be reluctant to reveal
their true size. Padded or push-up bras, worn daily, are about as
good for sexual intimacy as is faking orgasm.
Large breasts are sexual symbols and they receive an enormous amount
of attention. First size is relative. For some large breasts are anything
larger than Bra Cup sizes AA and for others small is anything smaller
than DD. Mathematically Bra Cup sizes B and C are average. Unfortunately
we often equate AA with Bad, and DD with Excellent. This leads to
a lot of misjudgment of female, and female of themselves. A person's
preference does not change every other month. Some are attracted to
nipples only, especially when they are large and erect. Females do
look attractive for many reasons, and breast size is only one of them.
Lopsided breasts
Some females has one breast bigger
than the other – it is just as common as having one foot bigger
than the other. Sometimes the difference is very noticeable, as if
one breast has hardly developed at all. When it comes to breastfeeding,
this is not a problem – the small breast usually produces milk
normally – but if you feel self-conscious about it, you may
consider surgery. Usually the small breast is enlarged by an implant,
and sometimes the size of the larger breast is reduced as well.
By
Adolescence Educator